Use a water-based lubricant and start with the smallest plug. Do not try to hold it in. I always have to make sure things are good down there before having sex. Men's Variety Copyright While anal fissures are quite common, some ass injuries can require a trip to the hospital.
When I go hard, I use silicone lube.
I did this so that the straight men around me would see me closer to being an equal. Repeat the process three to five times. I am the one you are looking. Being on top of the penis really allows for you to determine your level of comfort.
The bottom is in control!